Condom Basics

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Congratulations on Using Condoms! They are the safest protection for people who have sex against both STD and pregnancy. Although they are a popular form of birth control, not everyone knows how to use them correctly.
Condoms are effective 90-95% of the time when used correctly. The use of additional contraceptives (gels, foam, birth control pills) increases protection from pregnancy.

Advantages:

  • Only method that protects against most STD's as well as pregnancy.
  • very easy to get and carry
  • can easily be used with other contraceptives
  • can be put on as part of foreplay
  • are easy to use

Disadvantages:

    • Some people are allergic to latex
    • Condoms can break or spill
    • Some say feeling is reduced


Steps to putting on a Condom

  1. Consent to have sex- ensure that you and your partner have reached a mutual decision to have sex and that both of you are in a rational state of mind to consent to the act. -As soon as the penis becomes hard, put on the condom.-
  2. Open the Condom- be careful when opening a condom, do not open with scissors or teeth because condoms can tear easily. Carefully tear open at the corner and remove the condom.
  3. Ensure the roll is on the outside- positioning so the roll is on the outside ensures that the condom will be put on "right side out."
  4. Squeeze the reservoir tip- This is a very important step because it lets the air out of the condom and prevents breakage when the sperm shoots out to over eighty miles per hour!!
    (Sometimes before moving onto the next step squeezing a small amount of lube on the tip of the penis aids getting the condom on, as well as enhances male pleasure)
  5. While still holding the tip, roll the condom gently down the penis- (pull back the foreskin before rolling if applicable) Use both hands to complete this step and be sure to smooth out any air bubbles.
  6. Lubricate- this reduces friction and enhances pleasure. Too much friction can cause your condom to break. Avoid any oil based lubricants such as Vaseline® or vegetable oils, they can damage condoms. Use instead water-based lubricants such as Astroglide® or KY® jelly.
  7. After climax remove the condom- It is important to remove the condom while the penis is still erect because the condom is less likely to slip and spill if the penis is still hard.
  8. Dispose of the condom- Use a condom only once and dispose hygienically. Do not flush it down the toilet, they will clog up your toilets.

BUT WHAT IF IT BREAKS? baby pic

Remove both penis and condom immediately, then remove the condom and replace it with a fresh one. If necessary you may want to consider emergency contraceptives, which are now available over the counter at most pharmacies. They are also available at the Health Center. For a list of pharmacies in Carlisle that carry the Emergency Contraceptive pills and their prices click here.


Choosing Your Condom

When choosing your condom you should take several things into consideration such as: What is its intended use? What size and shape do I need? And what kind of material do I want my condom to be out of? (Am I allergic to latex?)

Condoms don't grow on trees!

Use
Vaginal Sex- Use regular condoms to stop the exchange of semen and vaginal fluids. For added sensation you may consider studded or ribbed condoms. A good water based lubricant can sometimes improve sensation.
Oral Sex- Non-lubricated and flavored condoms would be the best choice. Condoms now come in many flavors like banana, strawberry, orange, and chocolate (PALS hands out chocolate flavored condoms at some events).
Anal Sex- The anus can tear and bleed easily. It would be a good idea to use a strong thick condom with plenty of lubricant.

Size and Shape
One size fits most- but there are many different sizes for men. Different brands come in different diameters, lengths, shapes, and some are even stretchier than others-- you have to choose the one that is the best fit for you. A good fit means it unrolls all the way to the base of the penis and stays there.

Material
Latex Condom- the MOST effective protection against most STD's and pregnancy. However some people are allergic to latex.
Plastic Condom- a good alternative to those people who are allergic to latex. (Female condoms are also made out of this material).
Lambskin Condom- these are NOT highly effective against STD's because they are thinner than latex, however, they do offer protection against pregnancy.


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